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As we say good-bye to 2009 by and look to the horizon of the 2010 let us all, welcome in the hopes and dreams of  all good things!  I am extending my good wishes upon you and yours to have a Wonderful New Year. One that will be better then the last and the best ever in your lifetime.

It can come true  by expecting little, yet seeing the  good thing in life.  Look for  the good little things  to out number the bad. Life is too short to be miserable.

Enjoy the Year

Each year goes by faster.

Tough times never last, tough people do.

Now is the perfect time to start a new good habit and stick with it.

Don’t put off until tomorrow, what you can do today.

Make this a year to remember with,

Joy you made happen.

2010 to 2011

12 months

from the families at

Regret To Inform, LLC

HAVE   A   VERY

HAPPY NEW YEAR

Having created a website that can send emails after a death and then try to explain to friends and acquaintances is not easy to do. People do not want to talk about death. Explaining that this a compassionate gesture on my part, to  make their last words uplifting and inspiring is a good thing.

It has been unrewarding and rather disappointing. I do not look at this venture from a financial perspective, rather I see it from compassion base perspective. Meaning how many people and families I can help in my lifetime? When money is not a motivator but emotion is you look for different rewards as payback.

Why in the first place?
We all have seen or experienced dysfunctional family matters. Things that could be corrected with a few simple words. Forgiveness, understanding or to accepting a person or situation for what it is, instead of putting walls between family and friends can be done in one or two sentences. But, human nature prevents many from preform this simple act of kindness while alive. I believe brothers and sisters and every one in your circle of relationships deserve your parting words to be gracious words.

For many the unspoken words will haunt them during their final months of life. My Mother had two years to reflect and prepare for the inevitable.  She never had a way to leave advice or messages or videos to her Grand babies. Or say goodbye to her friends before she lost weight and preferred to stay out of sight.  These are a couple reasons for making this website, but why keep it going?

For your benefit:

• help people find closure buy letting them say what has been eating at them to say, so they can rest in peace.
• help future generations of a member learn from the messages, pictures and biographies created by our members
• be a way to guide your family and friends though one of the toughest times of their life. The time you say goodbye.
• encourage them to seek God because you will be there getting things ready for when it is their time.
• ( to be continued )
• auto delete private content you want no one to ever find or see.
• say and upload anything, your password controls everything.
• state of the art security built in to protect use protects you.
• ( to be continued )

These lists I will continually look at and expand to inspire me to continue working on www.RegretToInform.com Sometimes I thing it is a foolish journey to help Mankind become more compassionate.

I can:

• make a lot of money, but I don’t need a lot to live on
• give away millions to charity
• donate to research and find cures
• remind people of the blessing called Life
• be an example for others either good or bad
• spread the need for religion
• meet interesting people
• learn from anyone interested in enlightening me
• make new friends
• expand the business to provide jobs for seniors and handicapped
• travel sharing my philosophy of caring & sharing
• do this as a career until the day I die, hence not a job
• go to gala affairs like the Oscars
• wear Armani
• feed the homeless in droves
• bring attention to causes of the Worlds young and old
• fight for “the right to die” with dignity, something doctors cannot do but know that sometimes it is best to let nature take its course.
• remind people life is beautiful and heaven is home something not to be afraid of as long as you are prepared which this is the time to do that, while living here.
• touch the hearts of every friend of every person that uses this service or any competing companies service that will follow. Because I created this compassionate gesture it is like the first light bulb.
• encourage compassion yet also be sued because people will use these tools to hurt others. I allow freedom of speech and expression.
• ( to be continued )
• do my part to help soldiers secure personal property while on tour
• allow soldiers & family share personal pics & messages, daily
• give police, firemen comfort knowing their families will hear a farewell message because they’re hero’s.
• help all my stunt friends families, if something goes wrong
• ( to be continued )

Drawbacks, I can:

• get sued because of what a member said or did with the tools I provided (even though I am only toe delivery man)
• be called be many unattractive names
• have my life and family threatened
• have my home vandalized
• lose friends,
• go broke
• ( to be continued )
• up set the govt. if soldiers document & send videos of war crimes etc..
• ( to be continued )

Note to those that do not know me; all my life I have lived preparing to meet with God and have an excellent relationship with God, Jesus and thank the angels that have watched over me. I have lived a Christian life also by a code called Bushido since a young boy. I have had a career as a stuntman am a parent and a building engineer.  My philosophy has always been, “Life is what you make it”, now I hope to create my final position in this lifetime before I am too old to care.

Since Christmas is a time of gift giving. I will take this time to elaborate on the unusual gift I made for you, called RegretToInform.com. Perhaps you would like to save footage of days gone by from your youth. Or make vacations albums to enjoy at work lunch break listening to your favorite music.

They’re thousands of uses for my online safe deposit box. These tool were made to enhance your life. But these are not the motivation that inspired me to create an after-life message delivery service. Oh, did I forget to mention that I built this service so people could send messages from the grave, now before you cringe and leave, understand why I did it other then help cancer patients. Why I felt this gift is so important that I needed to complete it.

Daily reports are published with numbers of casualties from one illness or another. Reports stating outrageous numbers of people will either die of or become affected by something or another. The numbers have only increased every year since I was young. The bottom line is there are thousands of reasons, that millions of people are going to die other then natural causes.

Estimated 40,000 Americans between the age of 40 to 50 will contract Alzheimer’s  in the next year, for example. What can you do about it?  Well I though about a way to help. And I feel it is important not only for the person using these tools but the millions that will benefit.

Millions may seem unrealistic. So as a motivational  exercise I used to do was consider the Good I Could Do by completing this project. Using multiplier thinking,  I held the belief that starting with 1,000 members, they will send messages to an average of 10 people, that’s 10,000 helped.  each in a family unit of a spouse and child adds 20,000 more hearts touched. If one message from each of the thousand were read by 100 friends and coworkers that is an additional 100k people that will have a profound affect on their life experience. Hopefully every one will see the benefit their loved ones could receive by hearing their loved one say “it will be O.K.”

This is a tiny look, into what I am calling, my gift to you and yours.
Merry Christmas

I am not much different then you are.

Yet I feel the need to apologize for not posting anything the last month. Since Thanksgiving I have not been motivated to contemplate what others may need. To be more concise, I have thought of many topics I wanted to address in hopes to bring attention to and help others. But I have been Lazy. Perhaps lazy is to harsh a word when in actuality my heart has not been into the holiday spirit.

A part of my despair, in the context of Caring about others (which I am trying to do on a large scale through my website). But when the General public, doesn’t care about anything except the tiny bubble of the world they live and work in. Not until that bubble bursts does the need to care hit home. I realize conversations of life after a disaster or after someone dies, are usually reserved for lawyers and bill collectors. But I have created something that can revolutionize the picking up of the peices of ones life, and continuation of compassion if  someone dies, when prepared ahead of time.

And no one cares. To be honest with myself and another reason to despair is it is my fault that I am not a marketing genius. I have faith people will share in my sentiment of, “love for our fellow man” once they find out they can leave comforting final messages for pennies. It may take a person to come to the senior stage in life of accepting their final fate. But  to realize they can say goodbye on good terms by using this website, www.regrettoinfom.com now.

It  is something that to me has become a curse and a blessing because I care about people. Motivation to want to do something on a global scale can be challenging. Keeping the vision of helping millions of people over a decade is daunting. I am old and entitled to feel the melancholy of the season just as well as millions of others, with out the added desire to save the world of unnecessary grief.  And the tens of thousands of people news reports throughout the year, that will die for one reason or another I could help fine closure, if only I knew how to tell them this new service here.

I will find in my heart the spark to set the world on fire, with love for our fellow man, again. The first spark burned for years, figuring out how to create a secure, multi-media message, design & automated after-life delivery system. As soon as I can I will find the inspiration. For those who care, I do love you, even though we don’t know each other.

It’s called the Aloha Spirit of caring and sharing, you might no it better as MERRY CHRISTMAS

I want to teach you something I learned while building the site www.RegretToInform.com, about online protection.

It will help you prevent Internet identity thefts from hurting you and your family.

It only takes a second to do.
By looking at the address bar and reading it before you hit send.

1. READ THE NAME know who you are sending to
2. Look for the “S” in https://

Read on to Learn more on Why & How it works.

ENCRYPTION / SSL What it is and how it protects you from identity theft. You Should No This!

It makes sending information/data from your computer to another computer safe while it is in transit. By using what is called Encryption. It is also the result of a process called  SSL (secure socket layer). When you enter personal information into a field or page then click send. Your data goes in no particular direct across the Web. If you do not no this, the Web is an endless network of public accessible connections. Electronic pipes that weaves throughout the World that can be tapped into. Your information is or is not secure. LEARN HOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF Make this a habit before you send personal data look at the top of the page. You will see at the top of your browser what is called the address bar. Look at the address it will begin with either; http:// which is not secure or https:// is secured w/ SSL The “S” makes a BIG Difference The “S“ in https:// means your information is secured by an SSL/Encryption program. Its only function is to prevent others from reading the bundle of text being sent. Until it You arrives at its destination. Most pages on the Web do not need to be secured.  When it comes time to send information you enter. That is the time to look up at the address bar. Many companies now use color backgrounds to distinguish it’S SSL but you still need to see “S” to know it is encrypted. HOW SSL/ENCRYPTION WORKS A code is attached to the beginning and end of the bundle of text being transferred. Companies that provide this service also use a Users Licensed Identification code for further security. If what you wrote and sent were to get intercepted while in transit, data encryption would look like Wm/K5pCvr3SpmMn1vY2FWSymIF0aBvoHFa/hUtM FEj9Si0Tc8VD3S6+EXnMFXYlqMirVF9gFdeX5bZ U3V+NPsnW7blaePyJtdgZ4aizdsbyfixZfTmXBM akgE29WhapnPgwdu21oRQ0SD/cO+PydJNeqK2Y+ dH51tQnvfJ/i5+itsgb23/mISfEaGUqS0Lp9ylu When your message bundle arrive at its destination and recognizes the License and I.D. codes then the text will decode back to normal. DOES EVERY WEBSITE HAVE AN ENCRYPTION SYSTEM? NO, in fact most independent websites do not have a SSL License of their own. They are expensive when many websites only need a couple secure pages of information to do business. Because of the nature of our business we depend a great deal on encryption. PayPal offers Web merchants a simple way of doing business without the hassle of securing data and making money transfers. By using their SSL/encryption PayPal has made online security available to merchants at a minimal cost. So easy to use and trusted that most people do not realize how they do, they just know they do it. DO WE CARE? YOU BETTER KNOW WE CARE ! Regret To Inform is a Message Storage & Delivery Service THAT ALSO DELIVERS LIFE MESSAGES Our BUSINESS depends on SSL/ encryption. WE DON’T GET A SECOND CHANCE At Regret To Inform, we proudly use VeriSign, as our SSL/Encryption provider on all messages sent from our MEMBERS AREA. We use only the best web systems providers. We also go one step further by encrypting your personal messages before they are encrypted by VeriSign. That means you messages are double encrypted and only you know the password to decode your messages. You can change your password as often as you wish. That is why you can trust your information. We control the security and You control the password! VeriSign is a pioneer and leader in online security. Trusted by major banks, credit card providers, Governments and multi-national companies World wide. We trust the reputation of VeriSign to handle all our data transfer security needs which is all of our Members Area information. All these pages are https:// for our protection and yours. While PayPal Pro handles our secure money transfers needs. You handle the information input and password. We care about You and Our security. Everything you store is personal, private and protected. SECURITY IS OUR BUSINESS

Sincerely Aloha,
Gerald Collins
Regret To Inform, LLC